Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Courage Defined

Our great state of Oregon will be holding it's primary in just a few short weeks. Because of this, we are being inundated with political rhetoric on every side. I am receiving phone messages from people I've never heard of asking for my vote. This gives me another reason to be glad that we do not have broadcast television in our home, as I'm sure this is probably where the battle for the vote is shown the greatest. Political commercials are very grating to me, and most the time seem full of half-truths (on both sides of the field).
However, last week I realized I could not completely avoid the onslaught. As I listened to a favorite afternoon radio program, the commercial break brought on another attempt to sway voters.

A particular candidate was being promoted as " courageous" because of their stand against the war in Iraq, and presumably because they had felt this way all along. Courageous.

This set my blood to simmering as I felt this was a very poor choice of words, especially considering our soldiers who are at this very moment endangering their lives in the country of Iraq.

My first impulse was to spill out a post railing against the fact that this candidate had no idea of the meaning of the word courage....and more along those same lines. But knowing that words spoken in anger often are not the most eloquent, as well as the fact that they often only anger others who feel differently, I decided to ponder the matter for a while.

So instead, I give you my personal definition of the word Courage.

When I think of courage, as concerns our great country, the list of people is overwhelming. I have a great love of American History with it's sometimes larger than life characters.

I think of Thomas Jefferson who penned the declaration of Independence, and the 55 delegates who signed it. They knew, no doubt, the anger they would unleash with that document. That great sacrifice would be required if the ideals it contained were to be realized.

I think of George Washington crossing the Delaware in the bitter cold of Winter. By his side were many soldiers whose bloodied feet were wrapped with cloth for lack of shoes. Many of these men's (just average hardworking farmers) enlistment period was over, but they believed in a cause, and pushed through what would be considered insurmountable odds.

I think of the brave men and women who fought in World War II. We have many of these veterans who attend our church, and their stories are amazing and inspiring. Just ordinary men who showed extraordinary courage. Have you ever imagined what life would have been like had they not stopped a monster named Adolph Hitler in his tracks?

I think of another war that was unpopular in it's time, Vietnam. I have several relatives who fought in this war. Many of the veterans of this war were treated with disrespect when they returned. They themselves may not have agreed with the war, but when their country sent them to fight, they put themselves on the line, just as their ancestors before them. They didn't dodge their responsibility.

When I think of the many times throughout our history when soldiers have given their lives merely to assure during battle that our countries flag did not fall to the ground...tears fill my eyes. I don't say that lightly. These soldiers understood the symbolism of what that flag stood for. They had nothing to gain through their acts of courage, no knowledge that (in the case of this picture of Iwo Jima) they would be immortalized. They simply put their lives on the line for something that merited a true act of courage. I suppose those who feel no need to show our Countries flag respect would not be moved to tears by this image. Shame on them. That very freedom, to even show disrespect, was earned by the life's blood of others.

When I think of the nameless multitude of men and women that have given their lives to assure that the likes of Hitler, Mussolini, Saddam Hussein, and Osama Bin Laden would never take our shores, or succeed in their desire to crush our democracy, I am humbled.

Of course, you don't have to be in the History books to be considered courageous. But when you are attempting to sit in the seat of the highest office in America, I do expect you to have a good understanding of the word Courage. And not to bandy it about to suit a political agenda. Maybe as a voter, this impresses you. If so, that's your choice. You have the same rights as any other American to vote as you so choose.

Many truly courageous men and women have sacrificed their lives to make it so.

As for me, I will not be holding up this candidate to my sons as an example of courage. I have a long lineage of courageous men and women to hold up to them, people who had nothing to gain by their acts of courage...nothing but securing the freedom of those who would come after them.

When the present candidates are long gone, these will still be remembered.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Strange things are happening to me

Things are a little strange around our house this week. Or should I say stranger than usual;)

About a week ago hubby developed a rash down his left arm and hand. Being a normal red-blooded male, he pretty much ignored it. Within a few days, he was in a bit of pain...which landed him in the Doctors office Monday morning in a lot of pain.

The verdict: he has a rather bad case of the shingles! The Doctor said it's caused by the chicken pox virus lying dormant in your nervous system. It can be brought to the surface (so to speak) by stress, or in hubby's case, the upper respiratory cough and cold he had a couple weeks ago.

And it happens to be contageous...I'm not sure whether I had chicken pox when I was a little kidlet; it would be kindof embarrassing to come down with a case of it now.

I'm not sure why it would be embarrassing, it just would, LoL.

The Doctor said it would take around 2 weeks for it to totally clear up. He's taking antibiotics (to the tune of $110. a prescription; I guess they don't have a generic for it) , but he's popping advil for the pain part. So he's keeping us at arms length (myself gladly) but my daughter isn't too happy about that.

On the plus side (looking for that silver lining), the kids are enjoying having him home. I should probably say that because of the contageous nature of this condition, he may have to be on sick leave for the whole week. His boss is a very nice lady and is working with us on this.

Meanwhile, he is being quite a help around the house. This morning I was served breakfast in bed (which could either make me look lucky or lazy, LoL) and I am enjoying hearing the kids banter back and forth with him. He really is an awesome Dad.

Well, I'm getting ready to head to the Chiropractor. Unless they're celebrating the Fourth of July early, I'm pretty sure I shouldn't be seeing fireworks every time I stand up. So I think the old neck and back need a tune-up.

Life sure is interesting :)

Monday, April 28, 2008

Is it Monday already?

It was truly a beautiful weekend in our neck of the woods. On Saturday, we saw a high of 75 degrees!!! After a week of steady rain and temperatures in the 30's, I almost felt delirious with joy to be out in the sunshine.
Our church is having an Old-fashioned day next Sunday. So I found myself searching the local Thrift stores Saturday in hopes of finding something that by some stretch of the imagination would resemble pioneer clothing; sadly, I was not successful. I'm afraid most of their "old" clothing was 60's and 70's retro.
However, I was not totally disappointed, as I found a new organizing gadget. I picked this up for $7.99 (blush) at Goodwill. And the blush is because I really feel that is a little on the spendy side for a thrift store. But as soon as I laid eyes on this, all I could think of was the leaning tower of Pisa that is my canned goods cupboard.

You see, the one area of my food supply that I always have stocked up, even in lean times, is my canned goods. Sometimes I do this through sales, but the gleaners program we belong to also helps in this area. But I really hate digging through those stacks of cans. And invariably there is that one little can that should have been used first (many times over) but ended up last and is no longer safe for consumption...

Anyway, here it is put together.


To be honest, I doubt it will save me any space. But it will definitely make it easier to keep my miscellaneous cans (it holds up to 40) organized. And I looked up the website listed on the box and found this has a retail price of $55.49!

That made me feel a little better about the $7.99 :)



Friday, April 25, 2008

This and That

The boys had a great time going to work with hubby yesterday. There were around 200 kids there (his workplace has approx. 1700 employees; basicly, it's a small campus). They had a tour and activities for about 3 hrs, then they went to lunch with Grandma (who also works there).

They came home with some neat stuff (to kids:), including a very nice heavy duty water bottle. When I jokingly suggested that I could use one myself, they laughed...it seems hubby had warned them that I would try to "mooch" one off of them! What can I say?

Meanwhile, the Princess had fun at home making this cake. Think Christmas and Valentines Day mixed together...


She was quite excited about the guys coming home and eating her handiwork, which they did..right after we snapped this picture;)

Here's a link I came across this week with animated songs your younger kids may enjoy. I was looking for a site where the Princess could listen to the alphabet being sung, while also seeing the letters. You have to watch the ant song if you go there, it's quite cute. They also have various songs in other languages.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Take your kids to work Day

That's right, the boys are heading to work with Hubby today. They're quite excited, although Hubby himself doesn't really know exactly what they have planned at his workplace for the little guys...should be interesting.

Meanwhile, the princess suspects that she is "missing out" on something, so I told her she would be "going to work" with mommy today; which will probably include making a cake and a craft or two. And hopefully a nap some time during the day...a nap for mommy that is:)

So is anyone else out there sending the kids to work with Dad (or Mom...I'm an equal opportunity blogger)?

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Weekend Redo

Last week I read a post on Niki's organizing blog about how she organized her coat closet. This happens to be one of the most frustrating areas of my home because I do not have a closet by either my front or back door. Or an entryway area. Both doors open straight into a main room of the house. And there really isn't any way to make twelve pairs of assorted shoes/boots look nice sitting in the living room or kitchen, not to mention those countless other going-out-the-door items.

I have tried the shoe bags in the bedroom, but with our rainy weather, the shoes were just too dirty and made a mess (even after being scraped on the door mat). So I put a couple shoe shelves behind the door...but I still wasn't happy with that.

Am I impossible to please? (atleast in this area;)

So I thought I would have one more try at it. By the way, I HATE before pictures; not other people's, just mine. But I didn't let myself fix anything up (or mop the floor of the doorway, which needs it atleast three times a day). So prepare to be shocked...



So I added another 2-tier shelf, and found somewhere else for the backpacks, boots, and anything else that wasn't supposed to be there in the first place to go.

And I added a few pretty touches since this area is unstrategically located in my living room.

So here's after:


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

6 word Memoir

Mrs.Nespy has tagged me for a meme. I was supposed to come up with a six word memoir, not an easy thing for this wordy writer. So this is my memoir:

Content and at peace with Life.

Contentment: Although there have been periods of my life where I have had more money, or more possessions, I don't think I have ever felt as content with life as I presently do. The last five years have had so many twists and turns, in many ways things are the exact opposite of what I thought they would be. But I wouldn't change a single thing. I'm finding joy in simple things, things that money can't buy. I'm not perfect, and I've made my share of mistakes. But I think I will look back 20 years from now and be very glad for the choices I've made during this time.

Peace: My faith in God gives me both strength and security. I know I don't have to carry any burden alone. God isn't my "crutch" in life, He is my anchor that stands firm through any storm. When I'm weak, He's strong. And knowing that gives me peace.

Now I am going to tag the following people to write their own memoir, and then hopefully they will do the favor of tagging others, LoL.

Nikki, who is presently packing to move, so if you opt out, I'll understand. But I was curious what you would come up with.
Marva another busy, busy mom (one for each twin:).
Kristy at Homemakers Cottage, who writes such well-worded posts on her blog.
Minimalist Mommy, who may just want to shoot me as she has two blogs to keep up with now, and I'm sure is quite busy;)

Saturday, April 19, 2008

WANTED: Your Opinion

I was standing by the church information desk, waiting for my children to sign-in for Patch Club, when one of our favorite fellow-members moseyed up to me and asked "How do you feel about Arachnids as pets?"

Can't say I get asked that every day! So I laughed...and said "You mean spiders?" because I thought that's what that word meant, but the whole questian was a little unexpected.

So HERE is where YOUR opinion counts: Should we take in this "tame" tarantula that has been their family pet for many years, but is now needing a new home as their teen boys are very busy with other things?

Now before you think I'm just one stop short of the Looney Bin, let me explain...

If you had asked me a few years ago to take in such a pet, my reply would have been

"NO WAY!!!!"

However, my boys are now 10 and 8, and this would be a pretty unique pet to have...a little bit unusual compared to the "normal" pet of a dog or a cat.

And we were planning on putting a fish tank in their room. So we could do the taratula instead.

So I told him I would talk to hubby about it...only I haven't. It completely slipped my mind...honestly.

I think I'm afraid I'll agree, but then when the day of reckoning is actually here and I see that hairy little (or rather big) creature, I will be totally creeped out. In fact, just writing about it has done that.

I'm hoping that when we bring it up to our boys, they will say NO because it will just creep them out to have it in their room; that they won't be able to sleep with it in there...after all, that's what they said when I put the lullaby CD on in their room.

But then, you can't really compare the two, can you?



UPDATE: We have decided a trip to observe the tarantula is in order ; both to see if it's one of those super-ugly ones, and to see if the boys are still saying they want it after seeing it in person...stay tuned;)

Friday, April 18, 2008

Homeschool Happenings- Busy as a Bee

We had alot of fun with our Bee study this week. So I thought I would share some pictures of our various activities.


This picture is of the beeswax candles that the boys and I made. I'm actually thinking about getting some more wax to make some seasonal candles. I think they might make a unique gift. The dotted one is the Professor's, the middle one mine, and the rocket ship (cool, huh?) is the Artist's..of course.

I should say that while this was fun, it was a little painstaking. The beeswax was a little fragile (sometimes it broke easily) and because you don't use adhesive of any kind, you have to mold it with light pressure. So you might not want to do it with younger kids, unless you have LOTS of patience. I promised the princess I'll do one with her later. She seemed okay with that...of course, it probably helped that I let her make cookies instead;)

We also made these cute little edible Honeybees. I've included the recipe below if you would like to make them yourself. I couldn't resist making this fresh flower collage.



~Honeybee snacks~

1/2 cup Peanut Butter
1 Tbsp Honey
1/3 c nonfat dry milk
2 Tbsp toasted wheat germ
2 Tbsp sesame seeds (optional)
sliced almonds

Mix all ingredients together. IF you use natural peanut butter (as I did) you may need to add additional dry milk because of the natural oils. You also may need to chill in-between forming and decorating. I put mine in the freezer to harden when completed. Or you might just want to use the regular supermarket kind:)

For the bee body, shape 1 teaspoonful of dough into an oval. Place it on a tray lined with wax paper. Dip a toothpick into the cocoa powder and press it gently across the top of the bee body to make the stripes. Stick sliced almonds into the sides for wings. Chill for about 30 minutes.

Here is a link to the CC Pollen beehive tour. It was quite interesting, detailing the various positions and duties within the bee community. I read it to my kids, so I could skip over a few of the details...you'll see what I mean.


A little BEE trivia: OF course, most of us learned about bees during our school years. But I did manage to come across a few bits and pieces of information I didn't know before. Here goes..

There are 100,000 different species of Bees.

Mason Bees use their own saliva to cement small pieces of stone together.

Carder Bees fill empty snail shells with pieces of cotton and wool.

Carpenter Bees tunnel through wood.

Bees have their own undertakers; their job is to go throughout the beehive collecting other dead bees, and throw them out of the hive. They do this to keep the hive sanitary.

And this is my son's interpretation of the life of bees Lego-style.


I'm proud of myself because I ignored my thrifty impulses and bought the $3.00 (on sale) container of choice blueberry honey instead of the $1.00 bottle that I would usually buy. But it ($3) honey was pollinated by the tiny flowers of the blueberry bush (through the bees, of course) and I have to say it was worth every penny...especially on homemade cornbread!

Have a wonderful weekend~

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Thrift Store Thursdays- Girl stuff

I love looking at little girl's toys at the local Toys R Us store. They have everything. And my favorite section is where they have the items to "play house": food, aprons, irons, appliances. Just about anything you can think of, only in miniature size. But have you looked at those price tags? Yikes! So I was quite happy to run across this Little Tikes play kitchen (with sound effects no less) at a Goodwill store for $4.99. And since my daughter has tons of play food (I'm not even sure where it all came from), it will hopefully (the food, that is) have a place to reside, instead of being spread out on the living room floor.

If you'd like to join in on Thrift Store Thursdays, drop by Minimalist Mommy's blog and leave your link.


Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Comfort Food

I enjoy looking at pictures of food almost as much as eating it...almost. I love to linger over those cookbooks that feature a picture for every recipe.

So since we're still feeling the fatigue that comes from fighting a virus and finally escaping it (like that drama?), I felt the need to cook up some makes-you-feel-good comfort food.

I had been wanting to try a Baked beans recipe that I found at Tammy's Recipes, but hadn't gotten to it yet. It turned out to be one of the best versions of this dish I've ever tasted, sweet with just a little bit of tang from the cider vinegar. My crew gave it a Big two thumbs up!


I had also been looking for a cornbread recipe to fit our family and had tried quite a few different ones. We finally settled on this one, with just a few tweaks to make it a perfect fit. I highly recommend it; it's light, a little bit sweet, and doesn't crumble when you eat it (a plus with kids:) My boys were convinced from past experience that they really didn't care for cornbread, but they ate multiple helpings of this...with blueberry honey drizzled on top.

As you can see, we're not a meat-at-every-meal family; but with the baked beans and broccoli, my kids get plenty of protein in this meal.


We finished up with some Apple Berry Crisp ala mode. I love to make crisps for dessert because you can use practically any fruit you have on hand, and it's fast to throw together. To this dieting (but not today) girl- this was heavenly!


Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Homeschool Activities

Now that my kids are relatively back to normal (health wise), it's time to get back to work. So here's a look at what we have planned for the week.

1) The three R's - Just thought I better get that out of the way so someone doesn't feel the need to point out that we should be doing these. We do.

2) The study of Bees- The saying may be that April showers bring May flowers, but here in the Northwest it's more likely to bring more showers. No kidding...two years ago I had to wait almost until July to plant my garden because we had major downpours for 2 weeks straight (now you know why it's so green here). But am I complaining? Yes, just a little;)

Anyway...back to the bees. Busy, but interesting little creatures. We'll be taking a virtual tour of a bee hive, making beeswax candles, and I have a few other things planned...come back Friday for the details.

3) Democracy Lessons- While I have posted a few tongue-in-cheek political posts in my time, I really do think this present run for the presidency is a great time for older kids to study the whole election process in action. So my oldest will be working on some projects to do with this subject. Fortunately, he finds it quite interesting already, so it appears I will have someone to discuss politics with in my old age. I picked up a book this weekend that tells how the various positions of the Presidential cabinet came into being. I'm looking forward to brushing up a bit on some of my forgotten knowledge in this area.

4) Dum Dum Dum Dum....in case you don't recognize it, that's the beginning of Beethoven's 5th symphony. I had planned to study Mozart next in our Musical study, but the Professor has been reading about Beethoven (and behind my back no less!) and I fear there will be nothing for me to teach him if I put it off til later. Worse yet, he'll probably know more than I will...an embarrassing predicament he has put me in a few times before.

5) Still exploring the High Seas with World Explorers (probably through the end of school).

6) My sons have informed me that everything taught in the first lesson of our Hooked on Spanish set they already knew...from Dora the Explorer! I knew those Dora DvD's would come in handy, but I thought only in a give-mommy-a-break-for-25-minutes sort of way :)

The Professor is back to his Piano lessons. I asked his Piano teacher to give the Princess a trial run to see if we can start her on lessons as well. I'm hoping we've made enough headway with her communication issues to be able to do this, but we'll have to see.

And, of course, we'll have to check into taking out a second mortgage to pay for all those lessons...

Have a great day!

Monday, April 14, 2008

Organizing fever

I have a bad case of this right now. It actually started a couple months ago; but between a family vacation, and several holidays, I was able to hold it at bay.

Well it's back now- and not to be denied.

I told hubby last week: anything that can't be organized, will either go to Goodwill or to the dump...don't worry, I told him he could still stay around, Lol.

A couple of reasons I love having things organized:

1) It saves so much time and energy when you know where something is, and can get to it quickly.

2) An organized space is so...well, orderly. And there is no wrong way to do it, it's really whatever works best for you. Along with the fact that you can give it your own personal touch.

And there are so many different organizing tools, containers, bins, ect. to choose from. I really do love those bins...

So I thought I would post a few pictures of some things that have helped me keep organized in a specific area.

This is definitely one of the best organizing tools I've put into action. It's an over-the-door shoe bag...but I don't use it for shoes. I was having such a hard time keeping track of little odds and ends; those kinds of things that you rarely need, but when you do it's really crucial to be able to find them. Because the pockets are clear you can see what you need right away, without having to rummage around and make a general mess of things (I have a few drawers like that). This usually is on the side of the door facing my closet, but for this pic I put it facing out.


Because I homeschool, I print up a huge amount of worksheets, charts, and other helpful items from different websites...sometimes running into hundreds of copies in a weeks time. And because I often didn't have the time to sort through them all right away, they used to stack up on our printer. To remedy this, hubby brought home this great...I'm not sure what it's called:) They were throwing it away at his workplace, so their trash became my treasure. I just go through my stack quickly, and then leave the copies here til I can file them away later in the big file cabinet.
Thinking it would be handy to have another one of these, I searched for one at my local Goodwill. They had 2 of them;
both priced at $8 each... So I told hubby to just keep an eye out for another one in the junkpile at work, Lol.

My kids love to do crafts, so I'm always looking for any odds and ends that I can pick up in that area. But you have to have containers to store all those beads, buttons, gems, ect. And many of the storage containers you can buy for these are so small that my kids ended up emptying out the whole container to get to the one they wanted. So imagine how happy I was to find a link at Niki's Organizing blog where a smart mom had thought of using empty peanut butter containers for this very purpose.

I filled one with our craft feathers and it was a perfect fit, with the opening being big enough for even my oldest to reach in and pick out what he needed. When I think of all the peanut butter containers that have slipped through my fingers... Why don't I ever think of these things?

Friday, April 11, 2008

Why can't we be friends?

While I officially joined the blogging world over a year ago, I've really only been consistently blogging for about 6 months.

I admit I was quite clueless about the whole blogosphere; I still am in many ways.

However, one of the things that is interesting to me is how quickly a post can ignite a debate...even to the point of getting folks a little on edge.

Now the men (bless their hearts) would probably nod their heads sagely and say it's because we're a bunch of women...and they may be right about that.

I've thought this over a little bit and had to ask myself this question "Why do we all have to think alike?" I mean, granted, it's normal to prefer to hang around with like-minded people; but couldn't we possibly glean something from someone who doesn't think exactly like us?

I have friends that I strongly disagree with on certain issues, but feel no need to bring it up. After all, if I wanted someone who was exactly like me, I would simply talk to myself in the bathroom mirror...

I understand there are some boundaries we might not want to cross; you'd never find me on a feminist blog...I know that's very shocking to those who read here.

Someone once said "Every man is my teacher; I can either learn what to do, or what not to do from them." That makes some sense to me.

I myself faithfully visit only a small group of blogs, mainly people who I have felt a connection to, or find interesting in some facet. I don't think these people are all exactly like me, that's probably part of what makes them interesting...

Part of what prompted this whole "musing" post (yes, I am merely musing) is the various discussions that seem to be taking place in the blogosphere concerning frugal living.

I think everyone means well in their take on it all (think positive) but many seem to have strong feelings about it all; perhaps it all comes down to each person's interpretation being different.

Many of the bloggers I read qualify as being frugal; but that isn't the reason I came to, or still faithfully read their blog. It was the fact that I felt like there was something I could glean from them.

I read one comment on a blog that had me shaking my head wondering why someone would waste their energy in such a way. It said "Frugal people seem to always want to brag about it...many with a holier than thou attitude." I'm paraphrasing here...which means I'm probably putting it nicer than they did.

If you feel frugal bloggers are bragging about their frugal ways, or raising themselves up as better than others, I think you are very mistaken in your thinking...but you could always read another blog more to your way of thinking...what a novel idea.

And I really do mean that in the nicest way:)

Is there such a thing as HOMEschool sick days?

This school week did not go as planned, what with passing around the germs to each other. Pretty much, as soon as one family member started feeling better, another would start coughing and sneezing. Unfortunately, we seem to be generous with that kind of sharing.

But since we really did not want to share our germs, our activities with other kids were cancelled.

Which brings me to this question: What do YOU do when your kids are sick, as far as homeschooling goes? (Yes, this is meant as the kind of question you can answer in the comment section of my blog:)

The average kid that climbs on the bus each day looks forward to having the occasional sick day from school (or so I'm told). But when home IS school, it's not quite the same.

I figured that since my boys like to play games on the computer regardless of how they feel, they can at least play learning games when they're sick.

And as far as crafts, projects, and maybe even reading books (?), those are all good things to help distract them from how they feel, unless they don't normally like those activities to start with. And I have to admit the VCR does a good job of distracting too...

I'm not talking about the bucket-by-the-bed kind of sick here, nor just the occasional cold. More the mommy-I-need-more-medicine kind, accompanied with achiness and congestion...the kind where you would hopefully keep them from sharing the germs with other children.

So we went pretty light on the heavy subjects this week...I wouldn't want you to think we play around this much all the time:)

I picked up this 30 in 1 electronic project lab at the thrift store a couple weeks ago. So I told my oldest child "no computer!" today (he's in the just-getting-over-it stage), and handed him the lab. 5 minutes later he informed me that "you have to know a whole lot about electronics to do this lab". This from the kid that can click circles around me on the computer!
So I set to work to prove him wrong...which was tough... it took me about 10 minutes to figure it out and set up the simplest lab.


So, three hours later, he is still setting up labs. And he runs in every time he sets up a new one (remember there are 30 of them) to demonstrate. And I'm feeling pretty smart...of course my simple lab had 6 wires versus the 20 required for his experiments. But I have to take my shining moments when I can get them.

My middle son (that would be the artist) has been laying down alot the last few days. He's had some headaches and fevers, leaving him much calmer than usual. He did manage somehow to make these molds of a dinosaur skeleton and paint them. I suspect he is planning to hide them in the sandbox and dig them up later, Lol.

And we put together these little critters with a few bananas, and a little imagination. This is the sort of thing you start doing when you're stuck inside a house of sickness for too long...



And now I find myself at the when-does-mom-get-a-homeschool-sick-day stage; I might just give a prize to the person who says to crawl under the covers and pull them up over my head!

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Thrift Store Thursdays- Home Decorations


While I am blessed to have quite a few thrift stores available in the surrounding areas, I wouldn't say that they are all neccessarily the usual ideal of a thrift store- somewhere where you can get things cheap. GoodWill in particular (we have about 3 within reasonable driving distance) has raised it's prices quite a bit in the last year or so. However, I'm still willing to pay more in some cases: a $5. pair of boys blue jeans is still alot cheaper than spending $20. for the same pair at Sears, especially at the rate my boys wear them out!

However, when it comes to nice decorating items for the home, they have really gotten expensive. I continually pass up things I would love to decorate my home with, but can't in good conscience buy on my tight budget. Anyway, here are a few treasures I have been able to find in spite of that...it just took a little extra digging!

The picture at the top of this post is a Spring-themed tapestry hanging I picked up last week for .99 cents.

My kitchen is done in a fruit theme, so I bought this large candle ring for $1.99 to use as a centerpiece for my table.
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I picked up this set of pictures for $3. They are kind of old-fashioned as pictures go, but I love them, and have them hanging in the hallway outside my kid's bedrooms.



Some of the rooms in my house do not have overhead lighting (the living room for example) so I am always looking for ways to brighten up these rooms. I paid $8. for this standing lamp; it's about 5 feet tall and made out of brass (you can't really tell from the picture). I priced a similar one at the store for $40!

So, for a total of $14. I was able to add a few new touches to our home, well worth the digging.

About 4 months ago I decided I wanted to redecorate my boy's bedroom, so I've been collecting things ever since. I'm hoping to have it finally put together for next weeks Thrift Store Thursdays...I still have to sew the curtains though!

Also, if you would like to join in for Thrift Store Thursdays, drop by Minimalist Mommy's blog and link up.

And while you're there, check out her new ORGANIZING BLOG (I just love the sound of that!).

Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Rain, Rain, go away!

Yesterday they were saying rain for the rest of the week...now they say, after tomorrow, things will clear up...reaching the 70's by Saturday. I don't care why they're wrong, I'm just glad they are!!!
Meanwhile, we have the sore throats and fevers here; nothing severe, just enough to make everyone feel a little crummy and achey. And I'm willing to blame this chill-to-the-bones Northwest rain...it doesn't matter if that makes any sense or not.

So it was a low-key day of school; however, my oldest son was still up for his cooking lesson. We both agreed doing a meal today was not within our endurance, so we settled on making a quick bread...specifically Gumdrop Nut Loaf. Okay, to an adult that might not sound so good, but to a 10-year-old boy it sounds quite delicious! So here are a couple of pictures.


If I had a nickel for everytime he said "This is so cool!" while he was putting this together... I really have no problem with his enjoying cooking/baking so much; I figure his wife is going to really appreciate me one day.



You have to admit, that's a pretty little loaf; he's looking pretty proud of himself, huh?

Tomorrow I'll be posting some Thrift Store Thursday home decorating finds- Have a good Wednesday~

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

More Books from our shelf

Our family loves books. I'm not sure if I taught my children to love books (as funny as that sounds), but I have made sure they were always surrounded by them. And we take time to read together nearly every day. I have posted about our books before...so here are some more books from our shelf.

One of my kids favorite series are the Eyewitness books. We have about 6 or 7 of them that I've picked up at various times from the thrift store or garage sales. They are great books if your kids like to pour over a subject. They are rather large, and just packed with information on the title subject. As you can see, we have a reptile book; I assure you this is only one of many we have on that favorite subject of my middle child.

The other day the artist, and the princess, walked into my bedroom each carrying one of these books. My son wanted to read some of the dinosaur facts to me to see "if I knew...such and such", while my daughter wanted to show me the fox that was "endorable" and "why was it in the doggy book?" LoL.

With books like this, we could almost skip school all together...but my oldest son wouldn't let me get away with that.

Value-tales These are basically biographys with a twist for the kids. They highlight a famous person(s) and a character trait or value that they wish to emphasize in their story.

For example: self-discipline is Alexander Graham Bell, Determination is Hellen Keller, Sharing is The Mayo brothers, ect. They add some sort of animal/critter to each story to help tell it, and to put it on a little child's level. There are around 30 in the series, I've been able to collect about 25 of them from assorted sales. I have seen some listed on Ebay from time to time. Anyway, these are great books.


I admit it's hard for me to resist bringing home a book nearly every time I go to a thrift store. And I can often do so for .99 cents or less. Of course, there is always the library; but I like to keep my books (especially favorites) and they really frown on that there....


*Don't forget this is weigh-in day ...which means as soon as I get the courage to, I'm going to do just that:) And I'm going to post some more low-fat recipes hopefully later on in the day.

Monday, April 07, 2008

Homeschool,Home Projects, and more- Oh my!

Right now I feel like I am juggling about 8 balls...and I don't know how to juggle!

The good thing about it is that I don't feel at all stressed about having so many things to do; but it would be so nice if I could skip sleep for a couple days and use that time to get more things done...but I'm getting too old to do that.

So about this weekends accomplishments (which I know at least Nikki wants to hear) :

I did empty about half of the contents of our shed out, which means Goodwill is about to hit the jackpot, on a small scale. It will be strange to see my own things in there when I shop next time...hubby is threatening horrible things if I buy anything back, LoL.

The curtains that I was going to sew, even though I don't know how to...are still in my dresser drawer. I am determined to get them done this week, no matter what...unless I'm just too busy.

I did get to the thrift store and picked up this Melissa & Doug responsibility chart for the Princess ($3.99). I am so happy about that, because I was planning on making my own chart, but pre-made is so much better time wise. And the Princess needs this, as it not only lists chores, it also includes behavior. She does very well when it comes to being nice and such things, but sometimes she gets a bad case of the whines...so we are having to teach her that, while we love her and spoil her a tad bit, she does not reign supreme.

I also picked up Hooked on Spanish to use in our homeschool studies. I had gotten a very basic Spanish CD at the beginning of the year, but I wanted something that would work better with my two younger kids. I paid $20 for it at Big Lots; a store I love, and thus need to limit my visits to, so that I don't spend money I shouldn't:)

I was able to visit one of my girls from my Sunday school class. Her father had a root canal that went bad, and was so loaded up on pain killer, he didn't remember me (he has met me several times). Poor fella. If I had to choose between one of those root canals, and going through labour again...I'd choose neither.

My sweet little girl has been battling on and off fevers, on a minor scale. Nothing we've had to take her to the Doctor for, but enough to make her feel crummy. I stayed home with her from morning church, but after some extra rest and a bath (her, not me), I took her to evening church. Our church was having a Spring Banquet, and the class for the kids was taught by their crazy Uncle (from hubby's side of course) so they were excited about that. My bil is actually a great guy, and all the kids have alot of fun when he's there.

As far as this weeks school plan: we'll be back to our two co-op homeschool half-days with my girlfriend (Mrs.Darling, in case you don't already know), so that covers English grammar and Literature. And I have promised to have a knock-out science experiment ready for one of the co-op days...and these kids expect you to deliver, LoL.

We will continue our study on the Composer William Handel...which reminds me: I wanted to post the link to a great site I found called classics for kids. They have printable sheets (free, of course!) that you can use while teaching about the different composers; they also have the story behind musical compositions, which you can read as you listen to the music. One of my favorite things about this site is the orchestra, where you can click on individual instruments to hear them play. I am trying to convince one of my kids that the cello is the best instrument in the orchestra, and that it would make this Mommy's heart glad to have one of her children playing it to her in her old age...no takers on that yet.

And we will also continue on our World explorer voyage. As well as start Hooked on Spanish.

My little professor will be planning and cooking a dinner one night this week. Which should be interesting...I'll post details after the big event.

Oh, and my boy's are starting Taekquon do ...which means 2 nights a week they'll get a nice little work-out.

I need to list some things on Ebay; I just wish it didn't take so much time.

And last, but not least, I am determined to get more Spring cleaning/organizing done. The weather may be a bit dreary, but the feeling of Spring is in my bones, and I feel like a momma bird getting her nest ready. But not for a little birdie... or a little human for that matter.

Just thought I better get that straight...it takes so little to start those rumors :)

Sunday, April 06, 2008

You are my Hiding Place

If you visit on my blog page long enough, you will eventually hear the second song on my music player, You are my hiding place. *I switched my songs today for this post.

While this is not my favorite rendition of it (it was the only one I could find), this song touches my soul in a special way.

When I was a young teenage girl I saw the movie, The Hiding Place, for the first time.

I have always been a ferocious reader, with one of my many interests being world war II history. But I have to admit movies depicting that time can be a bit unsettling emotionally to me. I find myself wanting to weep almost uncontrollably that innocent people had to endure loss of loved ones (and maybe enough worse, considering the S.S.) for no legitimate reason. And there's nothing that I can do to turn back time and somehow have made a difference...

After watching this movie (and going through a box of Kleenex) I read the book it was based on.

If you've never read The Hiding Place, you really should consider doing so. While it is unsettling (it's hard to face the fact that such evil and cruelty could exist) it is also incredibly inspiring.

So I am going to give a brief synopsis here:

Corrie ten Boom, her sister, and their elderly father (who was a watchmaker) lived in Holland. When the Nazis invaded Holland in 1940, Corrie and her family allowed several Jewish friends to hide in their home. As the number of people they were hiding grew (and eventually included strangers), the Dutch underground arranged for a secret room to be built in their home.

A very interesting part of the story to me is the moral crisis that Corrie finds herself in at this point; she knew it was right to help the Jews, but struggled with the means used to accomplish it: forging, lying, bribery, etc. This was a time of rations, and many were struggling just to care for their own families.

Eventually, they are betrayed and arrested, then sent to a concentration camp. And that is when the nightmare begins for them; and yet that is also where their faith is tested and they refuse to turn their back on God. Of course, this part of the story is difficult to read, as there were so many terrible things done to those who went to the camps.

When Corrie ten Boom walked out of Ravensbruck, she walked out alone; the only one of her family left alive. And she walked out then ONLY because of a clerical error...but it wasn't an error at all; God knew how she would use this experience for His glory.

Corrie ten Boom dedicated the rest of her life to showing "that the love of Jesus is greater than the deepest pit into which humankind finds itself."


Here is a link to the Corrie ten Boom museum, including a picture of "the hiding place."

Saturday, April 05, 2008

Today's to do list

I'm not sure if I'm being practical here, but this is a list of the things I hope to accomplish today:

  1. Clean out and somewhat reorganize our shed
  2. Some lite grocery/thrift store shopping
  3. Organize some hotspots in our home
  4. Sew some new curtains to go with my redecorating of my boy's room; which should be interesting since I DO NOT know how to sew past the occasional button.
  5. Visit one of my sweet Sunday school girls
  6. Get our Sunday church wardrobe ready
  7. Prepare for next week's school projects
  8. Catch up on the laundry- which really isn't behind much, but with the germies here I really should do the bedding.

We'll see how successful I am...Have a wonderful Saturday!

Friday, April 04, 2008

Homeschool Odds and Ends

I thought I would post pictures of a few of our activities this week.

We made this book entitled The Five reasons for exploration as part of our unit study on New World Explorers. I've talked about this in a past post, you can read it here. It will be part of a large lapbook we'll put together at the end of the study. The boys also each made a map of the 7 continents and 5 oceans. *I enlarged my pics, for some reason they won't enlarge when clicked.


This was an easy experiment about the reaction of fat and protein (in milk) when mixed with liquid soap. It's simple enough to do with younger kids (just watch out for the food dye), but still interesting to the older ones. To me, simple is good! You can find the instructions here.

I picked up this little table and chair set this week at the thrift store. I thought it would help my daughter focus a little better if she had her own little work place. It has containers for crayons and pencils, and one of those slats that holds down big sheets of art paper. She loves it.


All three of my kids like helping to make things in the kitchen. The younger two are still at the pouring and stirring stage, but my oldest can do a little cooking on his own. Since he can fry an egg, I let him make a cut-out egg and toast. I think it turned out pretty good (the heart is for his sister). I told him he can pick out a dish to make for a meal next week, he's pretty excited about that. I figure I should encourage his interest in this area. And since it's my son making it, I will have to eat it, diet or no diet.

I'm wondering if he could handle a 4-cheese lasagna.....

*If you homeschool, you might appreciate this link I found, it's a spoof on the recent California homeschooling ruling, and very funny:)

Thursday, April 03, 2008

Thrift Store Thursdays

I'm joining Minimalist Mommy in her Thrift Store Thursdays posts. If you'd like to do the same, just drop by her blog and link up.

Thrift Store shopping is one of my few addictions. It's just amazing the deals you can find if you can get beyond your inner snob. Sorry, I just had to say that. I recently visited a site that discussed fashion and recommended, if all else failed, going to a thrift or resale store (if you could get beyond your inner snob). Well, that's no problem for me.
Being a stay-at-home mom, I don't dress fancy most the time. But for church, or a date night with hubby, I like to put on the ritz a little bit. So I keep my eye open for pieces that have a dressy-casual look. And one of the things I like to wear is a feminine leather jacket (hopefully no one is imagining me wearing a harley).

So I was at my favorite local thrift store and came across a lovely brushed leather jacket marked $15. That's a decent deal at that price. But this happened to be a yellow ticket item that was 75% off that day...so I started to look for the defect. You see, this store gets an incredible volume of people; a jacket this nice, at that price, would never normally stick around to make it to the markdown. I suspected it was brand-new, the little squishy gel packs were still in the pockets. Would you have walked around with those in your pockets for a year or two? Never mind... don't answer that.
Sure enough, I found the defect. The jacket was perfect, except for where the snaps went down the front. The snaps were actually hidden underneath, but when they inserted one of them, it had damaged a spot on the front leaving a worn circle about 1/2 inch in diameter. And something like that sticks out like a flashing beacon on a leather jacket, especially on the front.

Still, at $3.75 , I just couldn't pass it up (it really is a lovely brownish color). But what to do about that spot? I'm going to reveal my amazing technique that made this jacket as good as new:

I went home and colored the spot with a medium brown crayon! Just like it was a coloring book page...but I stayed inside the faded circle:) Hubby couldn't find the spot when I asked him to try. He thinks I'm pretty smart...we'll let him keep thinking that for a while.

But don't leave yet- I have one more great deal. Last week, I went into a local retail store to grab a few things. A clearance stand caught my eye, so I checked it out. And that is where I got these lovely cashmere-lined leather gloves for .99 cents. The retail price on the tag: $24.99!

And they're brown (of course). I quess they thought no one would want to buy them in March, despite the fact that it snowed the very weekend after I bought them.
And I wouldn't have gotten them if I hadn't needed them for warmth (right...).

So those are my treasures...isn't this fun?

I plan to post some home-decorating finds next week- see you then!

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Apraxia Update

I have to admit, I really had planned to post about homeschool today. We've been doing some really fun things this week, and I also had some free (such a nice word) site links I wanted to share. But that will have to wait til Friday.

I've noticed (according to my site traffic reader) that I am getting some hits on my Childhood Apraxia post that I posted in January. Which made me curious. So I checked Google (I'm like their biggest fan) and typed in to find blogs about Apraxia; only to find that I'm near the top of the list...due to my 1 post on the subject? Think about that for a minute.

And while you do, maybe I should give those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, but might want to know, a link to that post here. Sometimes I forget I need to do things like that:)

In some ways, we've made so much advancement with my daughter in this area, that it has somewhat gone from the forefront of my mind to the back burner. In some ways.

Then there are times I start worrying about next year when she will be in 1st grade and it will really be noticeable to the other kids that she has this speech defect, however improved from the beginning it may be. And when I see her sing with a group of kids and know that she can sing the song at home, only slower, so her brain can wrap around the words and connect the sounds. But in a group, especially when singing fast songs, she just can't begin to process it.

But then I think of all the many ways she (and we) are blessed. I'm able to stay home with her and work with her using techniques we've learned. We have an absolutely wonderful and highly qualified speech therapist (whom she adores). And we have a great support system.

We've been attending the same church since about 5 years before my daughter was born. It is pretty much our whole social life, other than extended family. There is always something going on there. Which also means my daughter has been around many of the same children there since before we even knew she had a problem.

Which reminds me: that's actually where we started to realize there was a problem. I would drop her off at 2-3 year old class each week. We had noticed she wasn't talking much, but I've never been a great worrier of whether my kids were exactly on target for each little growing thing. And some older women had even suggested to me that she didn't talk because "her brother's do all the talking for her", not meaning it in a bad way at all, just that it's sometimes that way for younger kids in a growing family.

But then I started to notice that when I would go to pick her up, which was usually an open play time, she would be off playing by herself. Not exactly in a wallflower way, just a disconnected way. The teacher said that was normally what she did during that time.

So we eventually had her tested (including a hearing test) and much of that is in my prior post.

I am starting to notice a little exasperation in other children when she's trying to talk to them and it doesn't make any sense to them. Our little neighbor girl often looks at her and says "I have no idea what you're saying!. She prefers to play with my middle son now (she's the same age as my daughter). It bothers me a little (I'm only human, and a mommy at that) although I know she really doesn't mean any harm.

But then there is her little friend at church (actually a year older than she is) who can play with her for hours, and I never need to step in and translate. She works around the issue, and they just seem to be able to connect. She's like a little angel in disguise. I probably don't need to say that this little girl has a special place in my heart, as well as my daughter's.

And the adults at church really go out of their way to try to encourage me; there isn't a week that goes by, where someone doesn't stop me to tell me exactly what she said to them, and how well she said it, LoL. I'm chuckling about that because they almost overdue it... but it brings tears to my eyes that they care that much. She runs from person to person there, chattering away to them. She feels secure and cared about there.

Which brings me to this: having a support system makes a big difference. Before we had some of these things in place (especially the speech therapist) I felt that I was drifting hopelessly in this area, that I was literally helping to set my child back in life.

I am sometimes concerned that some people might think that I shouldn't make such a big deal of the speech thing. That atleast my child is healthy (which she is) and has no other issues to deal with.

And then there is the fact (which I've learned by experience) that most people don't understand that there is a difference between delayed speech and childhood aphraxia. And they have to be dealt with in different ways. We wasted 6 months in a speech class because we didn't know this. And the delayed speech specialist who taught the class didn't catch on until we brought it up to him.

Would you believe that I owe it to Google that I finally hit upon my daughter's problem? I finally in desperation went to my computer and, with tears of frustration I admit, determined to find out why my prescious little girl couldn't clearly express the words that she wanted so desperately for me to understand.

And now I will correct myself: I clearly owe it to God. For leading me to the information I needed to move forward; for giving my husband a new job (at the time) with insurance that pays a big lump of a fairly exspensive speech therapy bill ($113. per visit) ; and giving us a speech therapist who, after teaching at a renowned medical college all day, really doesn't need to leave open a Thurday evening slot to work with our little girl. And for the people who are cheering her on.

I want to leave a link here to the site that opened my eyes to my daughters speech condition, it's called Apraxia kids. Their motto is Every child deserves a voice.

And don't panic if you're new to the knowledge of your child having this communication disorder (to be technical). Knowledge is power, though it may discourage you at first. But don't let it keep you down. Be your child's best advocate. There are avenues available, it's just sometimes hard to find them.

And if you need someone to talk to about this subject, or someone to point you in a helpful direction, I volunteer. Feel free to use the comment section of my blog.

I'm not a specialist on this subject. I'm just a mommy who wants her little girl to be able to reach her potential in this area. To whatever level that may be, I can be content with it, as long as I know I've done my best to help her on the way. That makes me pretty special to her.

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Trim Tuesdays- lowfat Mexican

Notice I used the word trim instead of skinny. The word skinny brings to my mind adolescent girls- or maybe myself 3 babies ago. Whereas trim makes me think of someone who is both at a good weight for their size, and healthy. Oh, and that other word we don't like much...exercise.

Tuesday is weigh-in day at dieting is not a piece of cake. So I thought in keeping with the spirit of things I would declare this day as, drum roll please...Trim Tuesdays and post some healthy, low-fat meals each week.

Now ladies low fat, contrary to popular opinion, does not mean tasteless. I will admit that fat does a lot to enhance our enjoyment of various foods. A whole lot. But cutting it a little here and there won't kill you; although not doing that just might.

So today's recipes are low fat Mexican. I love Mexican food! And I'm not just talking Taco bell here:) But low fat and Mexican doesn't always mix well. After all, what can you cut out: sour cream, cheese, guacamole....? Are you kidding??? Those are what transforms a Mexican dish from good to excellente! But enough gabbing, I'll move on to the recipes.

Lowfat Bean and Veggies Burritoes

1 Tbsp olive oil
1 medium onion, thinly sliced
1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and minced
1Tbsp chili powder
3 cloves of garlic, minced
2 tsp dried oregano leaves, crushed
1 tsp cumin
1 lg sweet potatoe, baked and diced or 1 (16 oz) can yams in syrup drained, rinsed and diced
1 can black beans or pinto beans, drained and rinsed
1 cup frozen whole kernel corn, thawed and drained
2 Tbsp lime juice
3/4 shredded reduced fat Mexican blend cheese
4 (10 inch) flour tortillas

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Heat oil over medium high heat. Cook onion, stirring often, about 10 minutes til golden. Add pepper, chili powder, garlic and cumin; stir one minute more. Add 1 Tbsp of water and stir; Remove from heat. Stir in sweet potatoe, corn, beans and lime juice.

Spoon 2 Tbsp of cheese in the center of each tortilla. Top with one cup of filling. Fold all four sides around filling to enclose. *Place seam side down on a baking sheet. Cover with foil and cook 30 minutes, or until heated through. Serve with low fat or fat free sour cream and a little bit of salsa (these are considered optional; but they're really not!). The picture on the side is from my own test kitchen:) By the way, these are quite hearty and filling.

Nutrition info: Cal 428 Fat 9g Sat Fat 2 g Carb 75 (sorry, it's not low carb) Fiber 9g Protein 22g

*I spray my pan, and both sides of my tortillas, with non-stick (non fat) cooking spray because I like a little crunchy texture.

Lemon Cheese Quesadillas with Mango Sauce

4 (7 inch) flour tortillas
1 cup part-skim ricotta cheese
1/3 cup non fat vanilla yogurt
1/4 cup lemon juice, divided
1 1/2 tbsp sugar
2 tsp grated lemon peel
1 tsp vanilla
1 ripe large mango
2 tbsp lightly packed fresh mint or basil plus sprigs for garnish
enough assorted fruit for topping

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Place tortillas on center oven rack (I spray both sides lightly with non-stick). Bake 6 to 7 minutes or until golden. Place on plate.

Combine ricotta, yogurt, 1 tbsp lemon juice, sugar, lemon peel and vanilla in a small bowl. Spread about 1/3 cup over each tortilla. Peel mango. Cut fruit away from the pit and chop into 1/2 inch cubes. Place 1/2 of mango into food processor or blender. Add 2 tbsp lemon juice and mint (or basil) and process until pureed.

Place remaining mango cubes in small bowl with other assorted chopped fruit. I used strawberries and mango, but bananas and pineapple would also go well with this dish. Mix with remaining 1tbsp lemon juice, tossing gently to combine. Spoon 1/2 cup fruit on each tortilla. Drizzle with about 1 tbsp sauce. Garnish with mint sprig. 4 servings

Nutrition info: Cal 283 Fat 6g Sat.Fat 3g Carbs 48 (again, not low-carb) Protein 11 g

Dont' skip the sweet potatoes/yams in the burritoes, they make a big difference in adding to the taste.

And the quesadillas are so pretty..and as for the taste: they're absolutely delicioso!